Writing for Therapy – Introduction Blog 1 of 6

There are many books written on writing for therapy, but in response to questions asked about my own experience as a Writing for Therapy Tutor I have decided to write 6 free blogs starting today and over the next 5 Wednesdays. .

Introduction followed by:

Week 1   What is the problem?

Week 2   What answers can I find through writing words?

Week 3   Sharing

Week 4   Writing tool kit, with exercises.

Week 5    Responsibility with words and creativity.

Week 6     Don’t give up writing.

Introduction of myself and the subject:

When I started writing seriously and then qualified to be a creative writing tutor, my journey into writing for therapy began.

Firstly, I realised that in teaching a creative subject much about peoples lives spilled out. It isn’t like teaching maths or history when you are dealing with presumed facts.

Secondly, there was scope for using writing alongside other resources for people looking for a hand up in life.

Thirdly, 25 years ago, it was a journey into the unknown. Now creativity in many fields is used to help people along the road of life, including Writing for Therapy.

I have worked in mental health units, at centres for homeless people, in prisons and in adult education centres.

I have been teaching: Creative Writing – communication studies and media.

Now I am retired from paid work, but I am involved in teaching Creative Writing in Sri Lanka. As a volunteer I have worked in schools for girls and teacher training. The idea is to use creative writing skills alongside English grammar and it has met with higher success rates in English as a second language, especially confidence in speaking another language. More on that another time.

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Let’s get started:

 Which one are you?

I can’t write as I am not creative,

or

I love writing, but I have not used it for therapy.

If you don’t think you can write it is not an exact subject. Give it a go and keep practicing. It is not about marks out of 10.

If you love writing, it’s a question of finding out how to add on exercises to what is already a way of life – writing for pleasure.

I’ll start with a simple exercise. But it is surprising how difficult some people find it – usually those with and a good academic brain.

Exercise:

1 word, add 19 more.

Lesson. Stop being exact to word numbers, but try and get imaginative.

Not a word association. Go all over the place – let creativity begin.

Write as fast as you can without thinking.

Easy for some takes longer for others.

Example:

Rainbow, blue, crisps, shops, coffee, warmth, cold, gloves, elegance, drama, T.V. stories, children, loaves of bread, cooking, mother, memories, photos, albums music .

This took approximately 20 seconds, but then I am used to doing it. Some words obviously connect for me, others not so sure why they came into my mind.

Now I have words to play with and I can go on forever taking out a word and repeating.

If your words associate too closely to the first word and you don’t go anywhere keep doing it. You might like to do the exercise with someone else, or in a group.

The purpose of the exercise – to loosen up your mind. A useful exercise before writing.

Don’t read too much into your list. We will return to it later, but not to analyse. You might find it interesting.

Please don’t think you need to be good at spelling or writing – be prepared to keep going. Share your writing or keep it to yourself – it doesn’t matter.

For writers who write – try something new to write about – check your writing has a work/life balance.

Writing for Therapy can work because it is a journey, because you can share.

No therapeutic resource is a one size fits all. I hope this introduction to writing for therapy free course, may be just one small stepping stone across the rivers of life.

Next week:

Who is it for

What answers can I find through words?

Personal stories.

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I wrote a novel when early retirement from the day job gave me the chance. I write with a sense of humor because that’s what comes naturally to me. I love making up characters and stories.

Is it therapy? – Yes – it keeps me happy and interested in life. I’m not trying to overcome or deal with anything. Writing can be pure escapism. A place where you make friends and meet people – real and imagined.

Is it magical? – No – but I get a lot out of it.

My debut novel

Marriage.jpg cover.jpg small Brenda H Sedgwick,

Author. Marriage, a Journey and a Dog. Unusual romance and comedy. Can be read on the beach with ice cream and a smile.

Ebook and a paperback http://tinyurl.com/gp9maje

The Empty Nest Syndrome

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When family members leave home, they leave their feathers behind them. Stuff in the attic, bottles in the bathroom. Remnants of the smells of their existence in the house. Sounds good and bad. When kids leave home, parents pass away or leave for a different life themselves or your partner decides they are happier elsewhere, You’re faced with remnants and questions.

You may know the changes that are coming, but not expect the impact. It’s no good brooding and wishing. You need to build a new life.

Preparation is good see  Empty Nest Syndrome Wikipedia

Start, even if you choose the wrong things you won’t get anywhere unless you start actively looking. Be prepared that your first choices won’t work. Keep going. Don’t get sucked into things you don’t really want to be doing.

What is your life?

What is your relationship with the person you may still be living with?

Grandparenting may happen and with overload. Your life is back to the old normal except you are more tired. You start to complain about not having time to  do the things you want to  or have always wanted to do. Before you know it, the empty nest feeling is back as they go to school and start to follow their many interests.

The many nativity plays you had to go to have been replaced with an hour at a rowdy birthday party. Now, what were those fun things you always wanted to do?

If reading is one of things, then try Marriage a Journey and a Dog . Life changes for Natalie at 40 when her unplanned empty nest  comes. .Marriage a Jounrey and a Dog

Pilgrimage

Searching for something is what we all do. Natalie didn’t think she was on a mission to find answers for her life until she stepped outside her comfort zone of family and familiarity. It wasn’t deliberate, but an accident. After discovering what it was like to be on her own and travelling without direction, she found herself on the pilgrimage trail from Paris to Santiago de Compostela. In Santa Cilia de Jaca Natalie experienced soaring in the mountains with eagles and vultures for company.

This is no ordinary romance, and you must read to the end to find out what happens to love in Natalie’s life. In the meantime, this is where she had fun flying with eagles. Clip #20 twisting and turning.

Some people on the Camino Way are on a Catholic Pilgrimage but by no means all. Natalie, like me, respects religion but doesn’t share in the practice of the faith. That didn’t stop her finding something inside herself because of her journey.

Pilgrim Santa Cilia de Jaca
Pilgrim Santa Cilia de Jaca
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The tip of the glider